My advice to you on your wedding day? Don’t strive to have the perfect day. You’ll drive yourself crazy. Celebrate the real moments. Those unplanned, unrehearsed reactions to the people around you.
Weddings are a culmination and celebration of relationships. Celebrating the love of family and friends. Those who are with us and those whom we’ve lost. It’s bigger than any one arbitrary “perfect” day. There’s a serendipity at play more powerful than we can predict, bringing people from all parts of our lives together for something that is greater than the sum of its parts.
And then, as with Susanna and Jacob’s wedding at F.E.A.S.T., it all comes together…and you see that it’s not about just one day. Those amazing feelings and relationships carry over into the next and the next and the next and you are beginning a new journey in your life, packed with true interaction and expressions of love.